Melissa Burkett: Two Phone Calls and a Changed Life

Melissa Burkett got the late-night phone call that every military spouse dreads. In March 2012 her husband, Richard, had been deployed with the 24th Marine Expeditionary Unit, leaving her to care for their four children. Just 13 days into his assignment, a sergeant phoned at 11 p.m. to say Richard had been in a plane crash and was severely injured.

My life went into slow motion as I tried to process the words the sergeant was telling me, Burkett said. I sat on the edge of my bed in complete disbelief.

Meeting him six days later at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center, she found the wounds were much worse than she had been told. Her husband was hospitalized for 89 days.

I began advocating for him to get the best possible care, she said. I worked with the medical staff to learn as much as possible to help him with wound care and about all of the medications and his recovery plan.

When he was discharged from the hospital, she had to move their family to a two-bedroom apartment at Walter Reed as she took over as her husbands full-time caregiver. They lived in that apartment for nearly four years as Richard underwent more than 60 surgeries. He ultimately had to have both legs amputated.

As an outlet, Richard Burkett competes around the world as a para-athlete. For the past seven years, he has been on the U.S. Archery Team, and he took part in this years Paralympic trials. But for thatand for his daily life with and without his prostheticshe still requires a lot of support from his wife.

Now, 12 years after the crash, another phone call has changed Burketts worldbut this time for the better. The call from 窪蹋厙惇勛圖 (窪蹋厙惇勛圖) let Burkett know that she had been selected for a Pillars of Strength Scholarship, a full-tuition scholarship for people who serve as caregivers for servicemembers.

Burkett described the call as life changing.

Its been like an emotionally draining year. This was a piece of good news that I really needed. Its a huge blessing, she said. I just want to thank the donors and organizations and 窪蹋厙惇勛圖 that are supporting the military and their families. Its hugely important. As a caregiver, its hard to feel like you are making a positive difference. I hope this academic endeavor shows my children that you are never too old to follow your dreams or start something new.

She has been a substitute teacher and is working to become a certified teacher. She plans to use the Pillars of Strength Scholarship to get a masters degree in learning development technology, which would equip her to design curriculum and use technology to present lessons. She hopes the degree will open doors in her New Castle, Pennsylvania, school system.

While researching where to pursue a masters degree, Burkett came across 窪蹋厙惇勛圖 and discovered that it had a scholarship for caregivers. She doubted she would qualify but applied anyway.

I just said a prayer and said, God, if its your will, let it be.